Well Worth It: How to De-stress from the Inside Out

Growing up in South Lake Tahoe, I had my own version of wellness: an adventurous day on the mountain followed by a hearty family dinner. While lasagna and a loaf of bread (extra butter!) might not have been the healthiest meal by today’s standards, it certainly delivered what I believe to be the most important aspect of wellbeing—joy.  

There are many paths to healthy living, with powerful vitality often coming from personal enjoyment rather than a restrictive regimen. Consider this new column an invitation to welcome more joy into your life through impactful ways to restore, perform, nourish, and glow. Each month, I’ll share results-driven strategies to enhance your wellbeing. In this installment, I focus on the art of rejuvenation. The methods will support personal nourishment, restore the nervous system, and allow for a greater sense of presence.  

Zen in 10  

Nora Tobin
Tobin is a certified integrated health coach.

There’s a moment, often on the edge of burnout, when the body needs restoration. Thankfully, recovery doesn’t require hours in a spa or a plane ticket to paradise (though both are welcome). You can seamlessly weave rejuvenation into the rhythm of daily life, especially when you understand the underlying chemistry.  

Cortisol is a hormone that helps regulate the sleep-wake cycle, influences metabolic efficiency, and lowers inflammation. When the body is under chronic stress, though, high levels of cortisol are released into the bloodstream, resulting in a disruption of the hormone triangle of cortisol, thyroid, and estrogen/testosterone. The thyroid, which governs weight management and energy, becomes depleted; estrogen and testosterone, responsible for sex drive, diminish in efficiency; and, according to The Journal of Physiology, too-high levels of cortisol circulating throughout the body causes rapid weight gain in the abdominal area, poor sleep patterns, and decreased feelings of happiness.  

The good news is that you can rebalance your cortisol levels. Here are three proven strategies to reduce cortisol and revive energy from the inside out. Each of these techniques takes 10 minutes or less and can be implemented anywhere. 

4-5-6 Breathing: A Built-In Reset Button 

Nora Tobin at Four Seasons Bahamas, Photo by Robyn Damianos
Tobin at The Ocean Club, A Four Seasons Resort, Bahamas, where she has hosted three-day Rejuvenation Getaways. Photograph by Robyn Damianos.

The breath is a powerful tool that can modulate the autonomic nervous system, effectively guiding the body out of a heightened stress response, known as fight-or-flight, and into a state of physiological calm.  

Consciously slowing down and deepening the breath stimulates the vagus nerve, the superhighway between the brain and the body that helps regulate the heart rate and the release of “feel-good hormones” such as serotonin. During periods of stress, the sympathetic nervous system triggers the fight-or-flight response, elevating heart rate, blood pressure, and stress hormone levels. The vagus nerve counters this response by activating the parasympathetic rest-and-digest state, helping slow the heart rate, reduce inflammation, and restore a sense of calm. This vagal activation is essential for emotional regulation and long-term stress resilience. 

Regulating the vagus nerve, and thereby reducing the negative effects of stress, can be achieved through several evidence-based practices, including gentle yoga, cold therapy, nature walks without technology, and breath work, the easiest of the strategies. 

Here’s how to practice the 4-5-6 breathing technique:  

  • Inhale deeply through the nose for a count of four. 
  • Hold the breath for a count of five. 
  • Exhale slowly through the mouth for a count of six. 
  • Repeat this technique for five rounds. 

Practice this breath work each day, not just in moments of stress. The consistent effort signals to the body it is safe and starts to create a daily sense of calm. (Here is a four-minute guided stress-relief session that can be enjoyed anywhere your summer takes you: Guided Breath Work to Calm the Mind.) 

Magnesium: The Mineral of Calm  

Four Seasons Grand Hotel du Cap Ferrat, Epsom Salt Bath
At Grand Hôtel du Cap Ferrat, a Four Seasons Hotel, guests can enjoy a floating Epsom salt bath at the spa.

Magnesium is essential for more than 300 biochemical reactions in the body, including muscle relaxation and nervous system regulation. It acts as a natural buffer to cortisol by modulating the hypothalamic-pituitary-adrenal (HPA) axis, which governs how we perceive and physiologically respond to stress.  

When magnesium levels are adequate, the body is better able to prevent excessive cortisol release and serve as a mood regulator. A study published in the U.S. National Institutes of Health’s National Library of Medicine found that magnesium may play a crucial role in regulating neurotransmitters, particularly by modulating NMDA receptors and enhancing GABAergic activity. These mechanisms contribute to its calming effects on the nervous system.  

In periods of high stress, magnesium is rapidly depleted, creating a feedback loop that intensifies anxiety and irritability. By replenishing magnesium, especially in highly bioavailable forms such as magnesium glycinate, the body is better equipped to manage mental and environmental stressors.  

How to increase magnesium in your daily routine:  

  • Integrate topical magnesium: Epsom salt baths and magnesium oil can produce an immediate sense of ease. For work trips, I like to pack Epsom salts, so that I can effectively unwind with a bath at the end of the day.   
  • Prioritize magnesium-rich foods: Enjoy avocados, almonds, pumpkin seeds, leafy greens, and dark chocolate to naturally support nervous system function and reduce daily stress. My purse typically contains a bar of dark chocolate!  

A 10-Minute Walk: The Gentle Shift in State

Four Seasons Puta Mita Monkey Hill HIke
On the Monkey Hill Hike at Four Seasons Resort Puta Mita, Mexico.

Studies from Stanford University have found that walking without technology has a positive effect on cortisol levels—and just 10 minutes has a profound effect. The walk provides a mental break, while stimulating the release of key neurotransmitters dopamine and serotonin. The rhythmic movement of walking also engages bilateral stimulation. This has been linked to reductions in anxiety and the stimulation of neural connections for creative thought.  

And, according to Harvard Medical School, walking—especially when done consistently—can be as effective as antidepressant medication for some individuals with mild to moderate depression. The mental-health benefits stem not only from the neurochemical shifts but also from the behavioral activation that walking encourages. Getting outside, engaging in movement, and experiencing a sense of progress can all break the cycle of inertia that often accompanies low mood and chronic stress. When paired with exposure to natural light or green space, the effects are even more pronounced, encouraging both mental resilience and hormonal balance. 

Nora Tobin is a leading authority in high-performance wellness, delivering customized programs to executive teams, professional athletes, and celebrity clientele. She is the CEO of Nora’s Naturals and a Certified Integrative Health Coach. As a Four Seasons Hotels & Resorts visiting practitioner, she offers customized retreats and leadership off-sites. 

5 Spa Trends Worth Travelling For

Whether it’s a singing bowl ceremony in Hoi An, Vietnam, or a mosaic-lined hammam in Cairo, Egypt, Four Seasons hotels and resorts across the globe have perfected on-trend spa treatments inspired by the destinations they call home. Here are five restorative experiences worth the trip.

SPIRITS RISING IN BALI

“When we design our spa experiences, we always offer something special that goes beyond the expected,” says Luisa Anderson, Regional Spa Director of Four Seasons Resort Bali at Jimbaran Bay. For proof, look no further than Blessings of Bali, which is far more than your typical treatment (though it does include a traditional Balinese massage). At the seafront Spa surrounded by lush gardens, you’ll start with yoga and breathing exercises to reinvigorate your spirit, take a “sound bath” created by a Balinese gong, and then have an ancient seaside purification ritual with Balinese-Hindu High Priest Aji Ngurah.

“The entire treatment is very ritualistic and meaningful, and specifically tailored for couples,” Anderson says. “The blessing by our Balinese priest on the edge of the ocean, where the couple is literally bathed with holy water, is a wonderful experience to share together. This treatment supports the higher spiritual principle of intimate relationships, and if we can enhance that journey on any level – whether it’s reducing stress loads or reminding a couple why they first fell in love – then we have succeeded.”


Singing Bowls treatment

Singing bowl artist Oanh Ngo uses sound vibrations, combined with other treatments, to balance the body.

GOOD VIBRATIONS IN HOI AN, VIETNAM

Set on glassy koi ponds near three UNESCO World Heritage sites, Four Seasons Resort The Nam Hai Hoi An is home to a surprising source of Zen: singing bowl artist Oanh Ngo, who’s in residence at Four Seasons Hotel Kyoto for the month of November. The guru of calm combines seraphic treatments with the sonorous sounds of crystal singing bowls, each of them tuned to 432 Hz – reputedly the same frequency as the natural world.

You’ll want to book the 150-minute Nam Hai Earth Song, a euphoric blend of deep pressure massage with gem-tipped tuning forks, exfoliation with herbs from the on-site farm, a cleansing agarwood smoke treatment and, of course, sound vibrations, which Ngo asserts can heal imbalances down to your cells. “Oanh’s understanding of humans on a physical, emotional and spiritual level is quite incredible,” says Kyoto Director of Spa Chinnapat Veerasomboonsin. “Her singing bowl spa treatments offer a beautiful parallel to the Zen-inspired teachings we offer here, enabling us to better understand our inner self and the true nature of our place in the universe.”

ANCIENT RITUALS REVIVED IN CAIRO, EGYPT

Four Seasons Hotel Cairo at The First Residence, situated on the cinematic western bank of the Nile, is now home to something ancient Egyptian pharaohs could only dream of: an authentic Turkish hammam, decked with warm marble and lined in mosaic tile. The newly opened facility furthers bathing traditions introduced into Egypt centuries ago, when the area was under Turkish rule. “Hammams were once reserved for royalty,” says Spa Director Mohammed Sabry. “There aren’t many Turkish hammams in Cairo, so the fact that we’re able to provide an authentic experience to our guests thrills me.” The accompanying hour-long treatment – which includes a steam bath, foam body massage and scrub in your choice of age-defying sandalwood, citrus or even coffee – is rumoured to reduce the appearance of cellulite and provide a burst of energy.


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Infuse your skin with pure oxygen at Four Seasons Hotel New York.

AN OXYGEN BOOST IN NEW YORK CITY

A byproduct of the city that never sleeps? Occasionally, your skin needs a major reset. Enter L.RAPHAEL Beauty Spa at Four Seasons Hotel New York, where oxygen-infused treatments will leave you feeling completely refreshed. The eight-room day spa in the I.M. Pei–designed monolith has perfected an experience called the Oxy Cure C. “The treatment includes a high jet spray of pure oxygen combined with a high concentration of vitamins C, A , E and other anti-ageing agents that penetrate deeper into the skin to stimulate the endothelial cells and collagen production,” says Spa Manager Keren Deutsch. “It combines all the benefits of the others we provide and more; the result is radiant and rejuvenated skin.”

UNWINDING IN WHISTLER

Inspired by the iconic Sea to Sky highway that guides guests from Vancouver to the Four Seasons Resort and Residences Whistler, the 80-minute Sea to Sky Massage is as local as spa treatments get. You’ll be scrubbed with organic British Columbian sea salt and seaweed to make your back feel brand new, then massaged with hot river rocks found in the surrounding mountains. “What makes our Spa so special is that we take all of our inspiration from the British Columbian outdoors, from the moss used in our décor to the products that include locally harvested ingredients and are produced nearby,” says Caitlin Hubbard, Spa Director. “Our guests travel here from all over the globe, and we want to show off all we have access to. There’s nothing like a great day on the slopes followed by a Sea to Sky massage – it’s absolutely delightful.”

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Bali at Jimbaran Bay